Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Trauma, Substance Abuse, Failure and Surrender: Exploring the Failed Connections in Chang-Rae Lee's The Surrendered Through the Lens of Recovery and Intimacy



Chang-Rae Lee's The Surrendered is a novel primarily concerned with trauma, and the associated symptoms and manifestations of trauma within a human existence. The three primary characters, Hector, June, and Sylvie, each exhibit both a symptom and a manifestation of their individual traumas. Hector is an immortal alcoholic. June is a cancer ridden addict. And Sylvie is a barren addict. For each, the symptom is an addiction, and the manifestation is a negotiation of life, on life’s terms.
These traumas function as sites in which the language fails. Or, blank spots in the narrative. Lee, of course, assigns language to them through his own creative authority, but what is left off the page is the language of connection. In other words, the language which effectively connects each character’s symptom and manifestation within their own arc is not explicit within the narrative. These malignant manifestations of life (Hector’s immortality, June’s cancer, and Sylvie’s barrenness) offer a three part view into the problems associated with the loss of a loved one at an early age. This initial loss which defines their respective back-stories is the obvious thread which binds these characters. However, in this traumatic space, we assume that these characters understand each other in a way that perhaps a broader audience may not. While this may be true, the novel calls attention to a more nuanced connection shared by these three characters through the negotiation of their individual symptoms and manifestations of their individual trauma. But more importantly, what is left out of the overall narrative is the subliminal connection shared by Hector, June, and Sylvie.
I would argue, this ineffable connection present in The Surrendered is the language of intimacy. Often, we think of intimate language to be that of lovers’ pillow talk, or the like. While this may be true at times, it is clear that Lee’s characters lack the ability to engage in this kind of communication. This inability to establish a stable connection is evident when Hector and Dora find themselves in a domestic sphere. This brief glimpse into a “normal” life leaves them expressing sentiments more to the tune of small talk, than opening a space of vulnerability which allows for true intimacy to take shape between two beings. At one point Dora even says to Hector, “’We’re like an old married couple” but she is “careful to mock the idea in case he took it wrongly” (282). This quick imagining that they are, might be, or could be normal is undermined by her tone which suggests she is unwilling to open herself to a true space of vulnerability. Here, Dora and Hector remain at a safe distance from each other. They perform and imagine a life which exists beyond the space of the novel, but cannot flourish within it. To further distance Hector from a space of intimacy the following scene which concludes in Dora’s untimely death interrupts that imagined trajectory and reminds Hector again, of his own immortality.
Hector and Dora’s relationship is similar to that of June and Sylvie’s as it is revealed late in the novel, when “one night June could not help herself; she pulled back the blanket [and] undid the mother-of-pearl buttons that ran down to the hem…exposing the whole length of Sylvie…June’s hand slid down and nestled in the burning cup of her long legs” (346). This scene concludes the chapter, and the narrative is not continued within this space and time for another forty pages.  Thus, Lee suspends the narrative, and for forty pages, the audience proceeds with caution. The natural inclination of the reader is to fill in the blank space, but Lee actually creates a gap in the temporal trajectory of the shift in June and Sylvie’s narrative to make space for Hector. When we are allowed to return, the explanations are vague, dreamy, and disconnected. June “didn’t dare ask if she could stay overnight again, not wanting to remind Sylvie in the least of what might have happened” (387). Then, the situation is questioned, “For what had happened? [June] wasn’t sure herself, save for the imprint of Sylvie’s body on her hands…it was only at night…when she was on the threshold of slumber herself, that a seam of pressure pushed up through the trunk of her body, this ache coursing through her arm and to her hand, and which made her reach again for Sylvie, though there was only herself” (388). June’s extended imagining complicates the clarity of the initial sense of intimacy between June and Sylvie. And, any true form of intimacy shared between the two must be imagined off the page, because, ultimately, we are left only with June and a fantasy about Sylvie.
While these moments in the text reveal failed attempts at intimate connections, the connection between intimacy and trauma is at once more important, and more difficult to attend to. However, once it is made clear that these character flaws are intrinsically linked, it will be easier to understand the ways in which the language of trauma is withheld from the narrative throughout. To begin, I would argue that the intimate disconnect is a result of the symptoms of the trauma that I highlighted earlier. The addiction that each character negotiates functions as the surface symptom of their attempt to negotiate their own trauma within the frame of each narrative trajectory. Whether the addiction is alcohol or morphine matters not. What is more important is the way in which recovery from addiction often works.
The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous offers some insight into this fundamental disconnect of intimacy which occurs in the space of trauma and addiction. The Big Book begins with “Bill’s Story.” The very first line reads, “War fever ran high in the New England town to which we new, young officers from Plattsburg were assigned, and we were flattered when the first citizens took us to their homes, making us feel heroic” (1). Here, the first member of Alcoholics Anonymous shares his story, and at the outset we can see lines of similarity between him and the characters of Lee’s The Surrendered. For Bill W., it was the war that brought him the bottle. He admits, he felt heroic. Bill recounts his interaction with alcohol in a post-war landscape. But his experience outside the war is no less combative or desolate. He recalls his futile interactions with his wife, his loss of jobs, and homes. He lives a life of chaos, which seems to fall around him, with him at the center of all the destruction in his life.
 Later, Bill recalls a friend who came to visit him. Bill offers the man a drink, and the friend declines. Of course, Bill is baffled by this refusal, but he listens intently as the friend proselytizes; “He talked for hours. Childhood memories fore before me… these recollections welled up from the past. They made me swallow hard. That war-time day in old Winchester Cathedral came back again” (10). Here, in a discussion of alcohol abuse and abstinence, Bill W. listens to a friend whom he trusts. And the nature of the conversation drives Bill’s memories back to the war, where one could argue his trauma manifested itself into a form of self-abuse, resulting in a psychological and physiological need to drink. This is echoes the sentiments of Lee’s opening to the third chapter of his novel where Hector’s narrative is introduced, “War is a stern teacher” (61). For both Bill W, and Hector, the trauma of war followed them as they held a bottle filled with disconnect and discontent.
While The Surrendered may not be exclusively or explicitly a novel about an alcoholic, it is clearly a novel in which one of its main characters is an alcoholic, or problem drinker. Like Bill W., Hector’s alcoholism functions as a manifestation of his wartime traumas.  The same then, can be said to be true of both Sylvie and June who abuse opiates. However, the primary difference between Bill W. and Lee’s characters is that Bill’s story is a story of recovery, whereas Lee’s characters never seem to get to the other side of their addiction. But if we are to think of them in a pre-recovery space, the chaos and control which these characters negotiate aligns them quite perfectly with the diagnostic paradigms revealed through Bill’s story and The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Chapter two, “There is a Solution,” offers this insight into recovery through the Alcoholics Anonymous model which states; “We are people who normally would not mix. But there exists among us a fellowship, a friendliness, and an understanding which is indescribably wonderful…The feeling of having shared in a common peril is one element in the powerful cement which binds us. But that in itself would never have held us together as we are now joined” (17). This ‘powerful cement’ is the act of intimacy imbedded in the completion of the 12-step program which Alcoholics Anonymous developed and adapted for all who have suffered from a self-destructive existence steeped in compulsive behaviors that are rooted in a pervasive and debilitating need to control one’s environment. The Twelve Steps of Alcohlics Anonymous are:
1.)    We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that our lives had become unmanageable.
2.)    Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3.)    Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4.)    Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5.)    Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6.)    Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character
7.)    Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8.)    Made a list of persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all
9.)    Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10.)  Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11.)  Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12.)  Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs (59-60).
It is important to see the steps in relation to each other, and to garner a full understanding of the function of the program. However, in this case I am most concerned with steps One, Three, Four, and Five.
                Step One asks that the afflicted admit that they ‘are powerless over alcohol and that their lives have become unmanageable.’ In performing this, the alcoholic is opening himself to the possibility of a life without the need to control his environment. This relinquishing of control then, provides the space for the chaos associated with it to settle. Step Three asks that the alcoholic make a ‘decision to turn their will and their lives over to the care of God.’ This is a lesson in surrender, that which Lee’s characters are often preoccupied with throughout the novel. Step Four asks that each person make a ‘searching and fearless moral inventory.’ This inventory surfaces the ways the alcoholic has interacted with the world around them. The act of making this inventory is introspective, and provides the details necessary for the addict to recover. Finally, Step Five asks that the addict admits ‘to God, to [them]selves, and to another human being the exact nature of [their] wrongs.’ This functions as the foundation upon which the addict is able to understand intimacy. This connection between similar people, shared for their mutual benefit. Consequently, Lee’s characters lack the language of intimacy, because they have not yet recovered from their trauma, or its symptoms. Rather, their trauma continues to manifest beyond the psychological realm and into the physiological realm as represented by June’s Cancer, Sylvie’s infertility, and Hector’s immortality.
                The physical ailments suffered by both June and Sylvie can be read as obvious physical malignances of their experiences as revealed through their narrative trajectory. June’s cancer is aligned with her starving childhood. Sylvie’s infertility results from her promiscuity. But Hector’s immortality, at the surface, seems to be a gift of life rather than a loss of it. However, I would argue that this immortality must be read through Hector’s perception of his own magical qualities, and that is that he is doomed for more suffering, because his body will not concede to his desire to let go of life. For Hector, life can resume after he dies, but his failure to die becomes his bane, and functions, for him, like June’s cancer and Sylvie’s infertility. In other words, it adds to his misery in a physical way, and it extends beyond his control. Again, this need for control is aligned with the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous. At the start of each meeting, members recite the Serenity Prayer which asks: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The Courage to change the things I can. And the Wisdom to know the difference.” This is often reiterated with the simple sentiment that one “accepts life on life’s terms.” This is at once a surrender to our human existence, as well as acknowledgment that we are limited by our human understanding. Because these characters do not seek to recover from their traumatic past, their bodies manifest these ailments which reveal their own mortality. Even if, for Hector, it seems he is immortal. His perceived immortality is actually a form of constant suffering resulting from his failure to surrender and connect to the world in an intimate way.
                Finally, Lee titles the book THE Surrendered. This small, and simple linguistic trick offers insight into the way the novel may be intended to be received. By attaching the article “the” to the word surrendered, the audience subconsciously registers “surrendered” as a noun, not a verb. This is not a story about those who have been surrendered, or seek to surrender. Rather, the book itself functions as the surrendering of these characters in an attempt to establish an intimate connection beyond the pages of the novel. The audience becomes the vessel of connection. The audience, in this way, functions similarly to the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. That is to say, we fill in the gaps in the narrative where the language of intimacy fails. We extend the narrative, and we establish a redeeming intimacy with these traumatic narratives. The book itself is The Surrendered object which contains the stories of Hector, June and Sylvie. The characters themselves cannot give themselves over to one another, but Lee places their stories in the hands of many who are able to identify with and construct for them a more intimate past. This then, I would argue functions as a promise to the characters contained within the novel similar to The Promises of Alcoholics Anonymous:
We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our story can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook on life will change. Fear of people and economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations that used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.
Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us--sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them (83-84).
Lee has done the work for them. He has written them in a way that projects them out of their existence bound in trauma. He provides a narrative of characters that beg to be redeemed. But this redemption relies on the reception of their stories by their audiences. For Hector, June, and Sylvie, life is wrought with trauma and tragedy, but outside the novel, we are able to recognize the symptoms and manifestations of those traumas. Furthermore, we are able to rectify their failed intimate connections within the narrative by intimately connecting them outside of it. The book itself which contains their stories is the surrendered object.
                By engaging the lens of recovery from addiction, we are able to more closely examine relationship between chaos and control. Furthermore, the symptoms and manifestations that result from personal trauma in the book provide an added insight into the failure of the characters to negotiate their own trauma in a constructive and healthy way. Thus, by examining the intertextual elements shared by the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and Lee’s character arcs presented in The Surrendered we are able to understand and negotiate the relationship between failed intimacy and trauma. Ultimately, the failure to engage intimately is intrinsically linked to their failure to articulate their own trauma. One last incantation of Alcoholics Anonymous provides a look into the way in which the language failure problematizes the connections that the characters cannot make. “How it Works,” recited at the opening of every meeting declares:
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates, they are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty. Their chances are less than average. There are those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be honest (58).
For Hector, June and Sylvie, their trauma has limited their ability to be honest with themselves. Yet, Lee writes painstakingly honest portraits of their lives. These characters are “such unfortunates,” in their own narrative trajectories. Nonetheless, the shape that they take beyond the page functions as the space where they are given over. Their capacity to be honest is limited to their reception by their audience based on the information that Lee provides. Thankfully, Lee creates the object by which they are surrendered, and relieved of their maladies.



               

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